I see many people saying they wish they had a man in their life & posting all these things like, “I need to stop thinking about you, because I know you’re not thinking about me.” or “I’m a fish out of water without you.”
These kind of things bug me because your saying you need a male
figure in your life, you just need him there. You need a man to be
happy, you need him to make you happy & in reality you don’t. You
just think you do because you aren’t content with your life.
In your
mind in order to be happy you need him in your life; open your eyes
& really think about it. It would be nice if he was in the picture
but he’s not really needed. I used to be in an (on & off) relationship
because I thought I needed him to make me happy. After a while I
realized that wasn’t the case, I had my best friend (my mom), I had my brother & my family (friends). I had these things to make
me happy but most of all myself.
You’ve seen this probably in quotes or posts that friends have made before or maybe your friends have told you. “If he wants to be with you, he will make it happen – no matter what the reason is.” < – - this is actually true, once again this topic was brought up in my life once or twice. Guess what? I was in that person’s life. He wanted me in his life & he made it happen but now ere separated.So, try not to expect anything from the one you love.
Simple as that, don’t push it
because then you appear clingy. Love yourself! I’ve seen this happen in
my life & others lives. Don’t go out looking for a
relationship wherever that maybe, when your content with how things are
going on in your life – the person will come to you when you least
expect it, I wander. When you are at ease in your life then everything will fall
into place.
